Sometimes we get lost. We lose ourselves trying to find other people or things. So we look for other people to value us the way we should value our selves. God is SO good, he will send you people to remind you what he has blessed you with, what you are capable of, and how beautiful your soul is. Yes, focus on you but pay close attention to the reasons why God puts people in your life. Think about what he wants to show you and what he wants you to learn. 😌
I have experienced this. I lost myself looking for validation and value from other people. I had to do a self check and really change some of my habits and my routine. Just to set aside time for me to focus on me. What did I learn from today? What could I have done better? What is more important right now? It took me years to figure out I was on the wrong path. Once I figured it out I learn so much more about my identity. I started to understand why I made the decisions I made. I understood why I let the actions of people around me effect my mood and how I felt. I gained self control.
I wanted to live a joyful life for me and because Christ wants me to. I wanted to understand me more. The best way to do that was to explore who I was. My likes, dislikes, talents, strengths, weakness. It all played a huge role in who I was. As I grew and matured God put some people in my life to help me along the way. To assure me that I understand what I was capable of, how much of a difference I could make. Also how effective I could be to people. I told myself I never wanted to go back there. I never wanted to be that person again because I didn't know that girl.
Since then I have been able to immediately spot things God has out for me. I have so much confidence in myself, I don't care if my mom came to me and told me I couldnt do it. GOD TOLD ME I COULD. So I grew spiritually and physiologically. I am more self-aware. I am more determined. I am THE ONE. Im not sure what for, but I know God created me for a purpose and no one can change what I am set on this earth to do. And for that reason, I am beyond pleased with who I am.
If you are reading this you should feel the same EXACT way.💕
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